IN THIS BLIGHTED HOUSE: A new blog to describe my return to Ireland. how I feel in this 'blighted house', the land of my birth. it will discuss all the GOOD this land has to offer, yet show the 'blights' that mar the scenes. I live and long...for a land of beauty in the people, in the politics, in the health of this nation. It can be found...but there is 'cost' and is the 'cost' too much to bear...
Sunday, November 10, 2013
strong in my weak places -like him!
double buggy picture removed.
Now there is companionship. Double mobility scooters for loved ones. I love it. I see the manufacturer is in CHINA! and we think we are progressive?
What does it say? say to me? It tells me that all disabled people need a companion. A 'soul mate'
and 'soul-mates' need not be a married partner. it can be your neighbour, your friend, your family member. but we all need someone! especially those living alone.
being disabled, being ill, especially 'becoming disabled/ill' is very difficult. there are no 'rule books' no templates on how to survive emotionally , physically or spiritually. it is especially difficult to do it alone. I have not yet reached the stage of believing 'life' is crazily wonderful in this state of blighted body. maybe you never do...I don't yet know if it's possible. no-one has told me it is, when support is non-existent and you can't make anyone (HSE) hear! But there's only one way to do it I guess...
...grasp every minute of life you have. easier said than done as I sit here wondering how to get my day going. 11am, not dressed, not washed and just wanting to go back to bed...no that is not a solution. one has to 'live'.
and here is a story designed to make you feel just a little guilty for the inertia, for the sitting around pondering. a man who is living...a story of sheer guts, determination and strong in the weak places!
I want to be strong in my weak places....like him
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2494162/The-doctors-told-let-Simon-die-Instead-tried-baby--ended-twins--The-inspirational-film-maker-refused-accept-death-sentence-Motor-Neurone-Disease.html
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